Self-Connection: Self-Reflection.

Self-connection requires the reflection of the Self. It also includes setting and adhering to internal standards, rules, or guidelines without external enforcement. Self-connection or internal connection is an essential aspect of human development and functioning and can apply to various areas of life, evolving to the external connection. Before individuals connect with others externally, they often need strong self-awareness and self-understanding. This involves knowing one's values, beliefs, and motivations. It's about being in tune with your thoughts and feelings, which can be seen as an internal connection.

  1. Emotional Regulation involves effectively understanding one's experiences that form perceptions of the world. Managing emotions, such as controlling anger, reducing stress, and staying calm in challenging situations.

  2. Behavioral Regulation: Self-regulation helps individuals control their actions and behaviors, ensuring they conform to societal norms and expectations. It can include impulse control, resisting temptations, and adhering to moral or ethical principles.

  3. Cognitive Regulation: Self-regulation relates to controlling thoughts, attention, and focus in mental processes. It includes strategies like concentration, problem-solving, and decision-making.

  4. Financial Regulation: In finance, self-regulation involves managing economic resources, budgeting, saving, and making responsible financial decisions.

  5. Self-regulation: enables individuals to make informed choices, resist negative influences, and pursue long-term goals. It contributes to personal growth, well-being, and societal harmony. However, developing and maintaining effective self-regulation in different aspects of life may require practice and effort. 

  6. Health and Wellness: Self-regulation is critical to maintaining a healthy lifestyle. It involves managing diet, exercise, sleep, and stress levels.

  7. Professional and Ethical Standards: Individuals and organizations often set internal standards and codes of conduct to ensure ethical behavior and adherence to industry regulations.

  8. Media and Content: In media and content, self-regulation can refer to individuals or platforms monitoring and controlling the content they create or host, following guidelines, and avoiding harmful or inappropriate content.

  9. Evolution of External Connection: Once individuals have a solid understanding of themselves, they are better equipped to engage with others meaningfully. 

It's essential to recognize that self-connection is an ongoing process, not a fixed destination. We begin to view the world through this unique lens by grasping how our perceptions and worldviews are constructed. We develop filters that shape our expectations of what the world should be, influencing the judgments we make based on our perspective. However, maintaining a sense of curiosity empowers us to appreciate and understand the diverse worldviews of others, fostering greater harmony and a richer tapestry of experiences than we could have envisioned. The path of self-connection not only leads us to a deeper understanding of ourselves but also connects us more profoundly to others.

Karen Corneille, SHERO, BSN, RN, Connection Coach

I use The Connection Skills Framework to help others connect to their authentic self and ultimately connect to others! 

https://www.theconnectionskillsschool.com
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